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We are most certainly sure that friendships will not last forever, some are just too fragile to commit and some we may trust unconditionally.

Mutual trust cannot be established within a short period of time, nor we cannot assume them to be faithful even after 5 or 10 years. So how much can you trust your classmate, housemate, kindergarden friend, or your partner?

This question can be very subjective as everybody’s priorities are obviously different. Some may think work is more important, relationship with their partner is their life, their religion is what makes them and lots more. All these are debatlable among individuals and we shall not judge for everyone has different perspectives.

The more important question is what are friends for? Friends are there to help you out when your family is not available. They are sincere at heart with hands to spare at times. They’re the shoulder for you to cry on and the sandbag for your anger disposal.

Some people in our life step over the line too much that you couldn’t stand it. They betrayed you, used you, and forgot about your existance until they run out of number to dial.

“Hey, come over for dinner. There are leftovers and you might like it” Just because they don’t eat leftovers and feel guilty to waste food.

“Can you come and fetch me at the station?” Just because you’re too lazy to walk a couple blocks and reason you have a car.

“Do you want to go for a trip?” Just because you can be their chauffeur. After they got their own car, they don’t even think of inviting you anymore.

It is sad to see your friend’s true face after you had built your trust upon them. However we have to avoid denial and cross them out our friends list, or we shall be hurt.

The fact that she’s older has become normal these days, as in a relationship. Will you accept a girl of your dreams being older than you? 5? 10? 15 years older than you?

Will marriage become a problem? Will she or you overwhelm the husbands ego? It will be amazing to meet such couple and hear them talk about it. I only have friends who girlfriends are 1 or 2 years older than themselves. How bout more than that?

For the given scenario:

One day you met an opposite sex of yours who you are attracted to, you both click just right and just won’t stop talking and laughing together. After few meets you found out that he/she is younger/older than you.

What will your reaction be? What will you do? Give some comments

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Went to library today to do my assignments, I’m glad that I’ve completed almost 70% of 1 out of 3 assignments. Haha.. plenty more left.

I joined my my friends for lunch at Campus Center, though I wasn’t hungry but I decided to grab a meal at least. Halfway through swallowing the not-so-tasty-fried-mee, they started to debate about who we should prioritize between relationship and friends.

It’s a very common question among us and normally people will tend to answer ‘friends’. But what I want to know is, how many of you out there actually put relationships before others? Even though you know it’s unfair.

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What’s relationships? What’s love? are they related? or are they one?

Relationships? been into too many, at least I feel so. You wanna know the magic number huh? It’s … narh… why should I tell you.

Relationship, it’s a state of commitment between each other. So what does it really mean? does it mean that they love each other if their in a relationship, maybe not.

Well that’s is when everybody like to ask, “Do you love me?” and of course yearning for a positive response.

Alot of people out there would like to know, is it better to be with the one you desperately in love, or be with the one who loves you more than anybody does?

To my experience, neither both will actually bring true happiness into your life. We always wanted for more, to love.. and to be love.

Love is about give and take, never one-sided. Don’t expect, but respect the other.

Relationship ends when you stop caring. So don’t stop giving, it’s not about what you get in return, it’s about your love for him/her.

If only it can happen both ways, with understanding and compromises, a healthy relationship is born.

So for the singles out there, don’t worry, there is always somebody for you, you just haven’t meet them.

For the couples who are reading, have you express your love to him/her today? If not, do it now, it doesn’t need a reason to love.

For the devastated, again, don’t worry. When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us. There is a better one out there, that’s why you broke up.

For me, I’m done, tired, fed up of starting another relationship nor trust in love. Haha…

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This thought suddenly cross my mind because one of my friends actually ask me is it okay? Is it fair to your partner? Is it okay to make yourself available for better chances? Must he/she see you and only you to commit to each other?

So the question arise, will you let yourself or your partner, to go on a date without intimacy?