A man without dignity is like a man without his soul. No matter what we do in life, we shall always love ourselves. I always tell my friends, if you want others to love you, you must first learn to love yourself, then somebody will love you, for you.

Women are always attracted to guys who has higher self-esteem. Why? I have no idea, it’s just pure chemistry. No matter you’re tall, short, fat, slim, some girls out there will just buzz into your life like a bee towards honey.

Got rejected? Move on. Guys must always be on your feet, not on your knees. You will only need to be on your knee when you propose. So stand up as soon as you sober up and walk like a lion king through the herd.

It’s not you who is not good enough, it’s her whom not appreciate your uniqueness. You can call them stupid if you want to.

One of my friends actually asked me, what do I mean by “Set them free if you love them” which I put it on my personal message in MSN messenger.

Humans, as always, we are greedy. We always want things to ourselves, having it close to us makes us feel safe. Well, ever thought of letting it go and set them free?

Freedom, is also one of the basic instincts of all living beings. Nothing in this world likes to be kept captive. Like a bird, it’s born to glide the wind reaching the horizon. If you keep it in cage, how could it ever be itself?

Same for anything else, when we hold it too tight to us, we often forget to see the greater picture. We hold it too tight sometimes and we forgot where it belongs to. Set them free, if you really love them…

What’s relationships? What’s love? are they related? or are they one?

Relationships? been into too many, at least I feel so. You wanna know the magic number huh? It’s … narh… why should I tell you.

Relationship, it’s a state of commitment between each other. So what does it really mean? does it mean that they love each other if their in a relationship, maybe not.

Well that’s is when everybody like to ask, “Do you love me?” and of course yearning for a positive response.

Alot of people out there would like to know, is it better to be with the one you desperately in love, or be with the one who loves you more than anybody does?

To my experience, neither both will actually bring true happiness into your life. We always wanted for more, to love.. and to be love.

Love is about give and take, never one-sided. Don’t expect, but respect the other.

Relationship ends when you stop caring. So don’t stop giving, it’s not about what you get in return, it’s about your love for him/her.

If only it can happen both ways, with understanding and compromises, a healthy relationship is born.

So for the singles out there, don’t worry, there is always somebody for you, you just haven’t meet them.

For the couples who are reading, have you express your love to him/her today? If not, do it now, it doesn’t need a reason to love.

For the devastated, again, don’t worry. When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us. There is a better one out there, that’s why you broke up.

For me, I’m done, tired, fed up of starting another relationship nor trust in love. Haha…

For those who cannot get hold of themselves, those who think there is no one else, those who think they are lost, here is some inspiration I want to share.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.

Don’t go for looks; they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile

Always put yourself in others’ shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.